If the door is open and something’s going on it’s a possible invitation to watch or join in. If they’re sitting up they seem to want a bit more of a mixture. If there’s somebody in there lying in their front, and exposing their bottom … well I think you can guess.
I found myself becoming pretty choosy within minutes, which was a surprise.įor rooms that are occupied there seems to be a code (I’m happy to be corrected here). There were a lot of quite old, overweight and unattractive men there. It was also interesting because it gives you an idea how women feel when men look at them. I’m not the kind of guy who gets admiring glances from women in general, so to be looked at like that was a pleasant surprise. The thing that’s really interesting from a straight guy’s point of view is that in this environment you’re seen as an object of desire instead of the pursuer. No codified rehearsal of buying drinks and dating a few times – you just get it on. Simply put, if at any point catch somebody’s eye and the gaze is held then it’s generally on. I’d read about ‘cruising’ before, and read about bars being ‘cruisey’ but never experienced it. Events and Offers Sign up to receive information regarding NS events, subscription offers & product updates. Ideas and Letters A newsletter showcasing the finest writing from the ideas section and the NS archive, covering political ideas, philosophy, criticism and intellectual history - sent every Wednesday. Weekly Highlights A weekly round-up of some of the best articles featured in the most recent issue of the New Statesman, sent each Saturday. The Culture Edit Our weekly culture newsletter – from books and art to pop culture and memes – sent every Friday. Green Times The New Statesman’s weekly environment email on the politics, business and culture of the climate and nature crises - in your inbox every Thursday. The New Statesman Daily The best of the New Statesman, delivered to your inbox every weekday morning. World Review The New Statesman’s global affairs newsletter, every Monday and Friday. Morning Call Quick and essential guide to domestic and global politics from the New Statesman's politics team. The Crash A weekly newsletter helping you fit together the pieces of the global economic slowdown. When using a search engine such as Google, Bing or Yahoo check the safe search settings where you can exclude adult content sites from your search results Īsk your internet service provider if they offer additional filters īe responsible, know what your children are doing online.Sign up for The New Statesman’s newsletters Tick the boxes of the newsletters you would like to receive. Use family filters of your operating systems and/or browsers
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